The Dangers of Gossip

Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. (Ephesians 4:29)

Gossip.  Talking Ish.  He Say/She Say.  Chatter.  Spilling Tea. 

Whatever you want to call it, such actions result in senseless folly and an overall deterrence in rebuilding our Nation. ESPECIALLY amongst the Daughters of Zion, gossiping has become a way of life. I've witness the horrors of such actions while in the world and currently in this truth. I've came to the conclusion that constant "tea spilling" is not only harmful to those who are being talked about, but also to those who speaks and those who listen with anticipation. To put it simply, there are no winners in these situations. Confusion and wickedness follows and grabs hold of all parties involved. As we all struggle to repent and move away from the worldly things, we as women need to see things with our spiritual eye. From doing so, we are able to recognize the sisters out there who are only looking to destroy you and others sister around you. 

Recognizing the Top Offenders - One Who Talks, One Who Listens and One Who Regurgitates

The Talker: This is the person who have the gift of gab. They are running their mouths from sun up, to sun down. Amongst her circle of friends, she's the person to go to hear the latest drama. But she is the last person you would confided in, despite the amount of years of friendship you share. She is most likely the person at work or school who will go out of their way to get to know you better, to try to figure you out. But she lacks sincerity. One thing I've learned about Talkers is that they are never uncomfortable with who they talk to, unless it's the person they are talking about. They love to have a crowd of ears tuned in and because of that, The Talkers will not hesitate to exaggerate or completely make things up. 

 In the multitude of words there wanteth not sin: but he that refraineth his lips is wise. (Proverbs 10:19)

And withal they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house; and not only idle, but tattlers also and busybodies, speaking things which they ought not. (1 Timothy 5:13)

Constantly having an audience consisting of cosigners, is the main goal of The Talker. Having cosigners gives The Orator a huge advantage; these people will never question or try to find faults in her because of her ability to convince, persuade and manipulate.

The Listener: Now I will admit...at times I do fall under this category. With people around me constantly running their mouths, oftentimes it's hard to not be within earshot of the foolishness. When it comes to gossiping I will say that there are two types of listners; the one who looks forward to the daily "tea" and the one whose ears were involuntarily bombarded. As repenting sisters, we must not indulge. You may ask yourself "what is the harm in listening to gossip". You must remember that because of you, the Talker has an occupation...You see, as long as there is someone who willingly listens and partake in the foolishness, the Talkers will always have a long list of "material". If you don't partake in the madness, either the Talker will find someone else whose willing to do so or eventually she will stop and follow the ways of the upright. Either way there will be less folly and confusion to deal with on your part. Besides, who wants to listen to garbage all day? What about listening to the words of The Most High; things that will increase learning and wisdom? What about words of encouragement, enduring or good news regarding fellow sisters? Those are things that ALL Listeners should look forward to!

Ms. "Big Mouth" : Trust me...you don't want to be known as this person! They are the reason for senseless fights, shootings, brawls and stabbings lol! The Talker is this person's biggest role model, someone who they look up to. So much so, that they are willing to listen AND then regurgitate all the foolishness to the rest of the world, no matter if its true or not. As a result, this person is always thrown under the bus when things get blown out of proportion and when shit hits the fan. Notice that this is the ONLY opportunity where the Talker do't have much to say, as now all eyes is on The One Who Regurgitates. Sisters, we also have to be careful when it comes to "sharing" information from one sister to another. No matter how "juicy" or "jaw dropping" the news may be, always try to put yourself in the shoes of the person being talked about. How would you feel? Especially if its not true...

A talebearer revealeth secrets: but he that is of a faithful spirit concealeth the matter. (Proverbs 11:13)

So whether you used to be the Talker, the Listener or the one who Regurgitates, as repenting sisters we all must remember the many dangers of gossip and how it leads to the destruction of our nation.  That is why it is very important to start keeping company with sisters in this truth; who understands the importance of being drama free and following the commandments. We need to focus on uplifting each other, enduring and living in righteousness according to the Most High and Yahawashi. Its not easy and will not happy overnight, but the more we focus on this word, the sooner it will make sense on why we must not partake in such folly and confusion.

Keep thy tongue from evil, and thy lips from speaking guile. (Psalm 34:13)